Improving the Human-Dog Bond: How to Have a Better Relationship with Your Dog
What is the secret to developing a strong bond with your dog?
Who wouldn’t like a better relationship with their dog? Often I see people posting questions such as:
- How can I get my dog to like me?
- Why does my dog like my boyfriend better than me?
- How do I bond with my new dog?
What do you think the answer is?
The basic recipe, of course, includes things such as:
- learning to understand your dog
- positive feedback
- clarity and consistency of communication (which is, actually, harder than it seems)
- gentle physical contact
- meeting the dog’s needs
There are some variations to the formula depending on the source.
Example information: 7 Ways To Transform Your Relationship With Your Dog
The key ingredient
The key ingredient to any relationship is time. Quality time spent together. There is no way around that. Why would you even want a dog if you weren’t to spend time with them?
Both the amount and the quality are equally important.
What makes your dog happy? What can you do together that meets that need?
There are things that all dogs enjoy
- time outside
- physical activity
- mental stimulation
- sniffing things
The thing Jasmine loved above all, were hikes. JD could play fetch until he drops.
With Cookie, of course, we do lots of walking. I tried various things, including tricks, light agility, fetch, canine freestyle moves. She will do all that but her heart wasn’t in it.
What Cookie wants to do is hunting. That’s what she lives form. How could we do that together rather than her doing it on her own?
Rottweiler with a Hound blood
Cookie looks like a purebred Rottweiler. Yeah, I can tell myself that all I want. But somehow, while she looks like a purebred Rottweiler, there is hound blood running through Cookie’s veins.
I could try to keep convincing her that “my” activities are enjoyable. Afterall, if she does those things, she gets treats and praise. But she’s just not having any fun.
Being my dog’s partner
I decided to become her partner instead.
We go frog hunting together. She’s the hunter, and I am her spotter. I can see the frogs better. I’m taller and can see further, and I can see them when they’re trying to blend with the weeds. I can tell her where to look for them.
Suddenly, I am useful and interesting to my dog
This has improved our relationship dramatically. Not that it wasn’t good before. But now it’s an entirely different level. We are a team. We do this together. Cookie has never paid such close attention to me.
Over time, we developed a whole new communications system. She looks to me where to find them. She learned a whole bunch of new words and sounds I use to explain to here where they are and what to do.
Why should we always expect dogs to do what we want them to? Why couldn’t it be the other way around?
It makes Cookie happy. Therefore it makes me happy. And we became inseparable. It’s our quality time together.
We do other things together too. Mouse hunting, mole hunting … And I do find ways of making myself useful.
What do you do with your dog?
My Dog Won’t Play: How to Facilitate Playful Behavior in Your Dog
9 Ways to Improve your Relationship with your Dog